Porn

A task lies before me. It’s a task I hate. If I’m honest, it’s a task that inspires a range of bad feelings in me – fear, loneliness, incompetence, primarily, but also (and mainly as a result of those others),…

You know that I love to watch women get themselves off. There’s a great website – “I Feel Myself” – that is nothing but beautiful women playing with themselves. I belonged long ago, and I just discovered that if just…

The very first porn I remember seeing was in a friend’s “clubhouse.” Ironically, the magazine was a “Club.” This friend was notable primarily for his insistence that, though his birthday was November 1, his real birthday was October 31, but…

The good people at n+1 magazine – a recent discovery of T’s, and now mine – are conducting some research: We’re exploring what it means—if anything—that people now encounter sex on the internet at early ages. We’d like to hear…

Just look at this. It’s a thing of beauty. Let’s just move, slowly, from left to right in the picture. First, her arms, hooked back behind her, holding on to the chair, holding her up, preventing her from sliding forward,…

There’s something about the image of a woman spreading her legs – clothed – for me that is about the most arousing thing I can imagine. This afternoon, I had some writing (not blog-related) to do. I got a fair…

I wrote the other day about how I sometimes use porn (and, incidentally, used commercial sex) not when I’m feeling intense sexual desire, but when I’m deep on the opposite side of the desire spectrum, when I’m feeling pain, numb,…

Porn’s funny. Conventional wisdom holds that we use porn when we’re horny. But this isn’t quite right, I think. I mean, I know it’s not quite right for me, and I suspect it’s not right for many. I use porn in…

The other day, I wrote about the California Pimp site. I had forgotten, at the time, that the site also went by the name “Netvideogirls.” A little googling, though, and I came across this video, which captures all of what…

This is the second part in my ongoing (and recurrent) series on my tastes in porn. The first part concerned my enthusiasm for movies of women masturbating to orgasm. I mentioned a few sites that I particularly like (The Life…