Them’s the breaks…
T and I go out, from time to time, on dates with other couples. Mostly, these have been people we’ve[…]
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Cultural differences
We sat around a table – six or eight professionals, all upper-middle-class white people, all working in the same professional[…]
Read moreSpecial redux, redux
I’ve written about this topic before, at least two times , but now’s a good time, again. One of the odd[…]
Read moreOpen relationship mini-quiz
There’s a little “open relationship mini-quiz” that’s been making the internet rounds lately. It showed up here, and here. I[…]
Read morePolyamory and swinging
Dan Savage wrote a column last week arguing, forcefully, that polyamory isn’t a sexual orientation. This seems to me akin to[…]
Read moreThis is what you did for me #2 (part 2)
We walked out of the timeless space of the strip club, into the busy streets. Fifteen blocks later, we arrived[…]
Read moreThis is what I did for you
In her words…. i was so excited for this date i love the elaborate construct “arrive here and wait for[…]
Read moreFirst impressions
We walked into the dark bar. Neither of us was feeling especially revved for the date. We weren’t at our[…]
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