My father

Random Favorites: Favorite animal? Favorite holiday to celebrate? Favorite number? Favorite gift you’ve ever received? Favorite instructor/teacher/mentor/professor? Favorite place to meet a friend? Favorite way to unwind? Favorite childhood memory? (This could be difficult.) Favorite thing about yourself? Favorite sexual…

These are a few of my favorite food-related things.

Family. Friends. Romance. Sex.

In which I propose an alternate conceptualization of the wildly popular notion of “attachment styles.”

My mother abandoned me….

I don’t like being pigeon-holed.

Some of my thoughts about WHY I want the things I want.

Traveling through Europe with my father at thirteen or fourteen: our itinerary took us to Hungary, among other places, and on a day-long bus tour in the hills of Buda. We watched some sort of “authentic” folkloric performance – for…

Some people like ’em. (I’m looking at you, Hy.) I got nothing against women – or men – who like their men hung. To each her/his own, I say. My cock, though, is on the smaller side, as I’ve written.…

I’ve never thought of myself as arrogant. I’ve thought that, like far too many men, I have the distasteful habit of speaking authoritatively, of ending sentences with downward intonation, of implying certainty, knowledge, when curiosity and openness might be more……