Craigslist

Even more than sex, or commercial sex, during my days of “addiction,” I was compelled by web sites about sex, web sites that promised sex. There are a few categories of these, ranging from the utopian ones that promise free…

In my New Year’s Resolution post a year ago, and again yesterday, I mentioned “high-concept swinging” as a goal. A couple of readers asked just what I meant by that. Sorry – I was talking to myself when I wrote…

Some time ago, I wrote a bit about how trust evolves in virtual relationships. I thought I’d write a bit about how it evolves in commercial sex (or at least, how it did for me), since I suspect that’s actually an…

Last week, I wrote about my most memorable sexual experience, and I dissected nearly every aspect of it, trying to understand just what about that experience was so resonant for me. Fantasies are interesting in a way that actual sexual…

This is the ad I placed that resulted in my hiring my two trainers (and having a terrific time interviewing a bunch of others): I’m an attractive, driven, professional, successful man. There’s a gaping hole in my life: I can’t…

After Isabella, my cherry having been popped, I continued my descent.  (The end of the story, and its summary, can be found here, here and here – I repeat this in every post because it’s important to me that no…

One of the funny things about the demimonde in which this blog exists – and the various demimondes in which I exist as N. Likes (Twitter, Google+, Tumblr, as well as OKCupid, SwingLifeStyle, and Craigslist) – is that there’s this…

I used to be fat, but then I stumbled on, with the help of my wife, just a little extra motivation:  “Why don’t you hire a hot trainer?” she said. Never one to do things half-assed, or to look a…

In the context of my now long-ago contest with L, I placed some Craigslist ads in a variety of cities. The ads varied, but basically said, “Check out my blog and let me know if you see any fun ways to…

Gentle dom seeks sub for playful relationship.  No pain, humiliation.  Just sensual good times. She wrote back an hour after the ad was posted.  She was, she said, 21, brunette, buxom.  She sent an unimaginably hot picture.  Exotic-looking, olive-skinned, long…