Anger

Upon examination, my anger almost always dissolves into fear.

I’m in pain, with little hope of relief. Ever. And it seems to be producing some intense emotions in me.

What my anger feels like, what it does.

I definitely have anger issues toward women. Here’s how they work, and how paying for sex fits in.

I’m exquisitely dominant, but roughness doesn’t come naturally — I go to great lengths to protect the women I fuck from my anger, and I want to understand why.

Sofia’s right: I really am difficult. The two dangers of being desired — having instead of getting, and being wanted in the wrong amount.

For me, anger is never primary. It’s always protecting me from something else — usually fear.

I came to meditation through Elizabeth Gilbert and the Hare Krishnas, which should tell you something about me.

We men are like a kid running with scissors: irresponsible and dangerous.

Forgiveness isn’t something we do. It’s something that happens to us — if we let it.