Musing

I’m cynical about politics, but net neutrality brings out the idealist in me. Also, there are porn stars.

My desire is many things, but one thing it is is fragile.

My childhood calligraphy error turned out to be more truth than mistake.

I’m exquisitely dominant, but roughness doesn’t come naturally — I go to great lengths to protect the women I fuck from my anger, and I want to understand why.

A twelve-year-old boy, a closet, a cousin with breasts, and the indelible shame of getting caught — plus some thoughts on what we owe the teenage boys who do creepy things.

Parenting is complicated. Here’s one conversation I had with my son, about cops.

Three rejections in one day, and I went to a coffee shop instead of a massage parlor.

James Comey thinks there should be no zone free from the eyes of law enforcement. As a slutty, polyamorous sex blogger, I have some thoughts about that.

Sofia’s right: I really am difficult. The two dangers of being desired — having instead of getting, and being wanted in the wrong amount.