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Musing
Thinks I think
998 posts
Polina’s problem, or, seduction
Read moreA definition of seduction
Displacement and disruption: a summer without home
Read moreAfter being forced to vacate our home due to required code upgrades, T and I have been living in a series of temporary spaces, financially and emotionally drained by a renovation we never wanted.
Ghosts
Read moreI hate being ghosted. It shakes my sense of connection, judgment, and even cosmology.
Free speech
Read moreI’m scared
The cost of taking care
Read moreDespite transforming my relationship to food and fitness over decades, maintaining my body now feels like an exhausting and resented obsession.
Trump’s note to epstein
Read moreThe focus should be on why Trump sent a note to Epstein and the meaning of ‘enigmas’ in it, rather than its authenticity.
The evolution of my fantasies
Read moreI’ve entereda new developmental phase: fantasizing about scenarios that can’t, shouldn’t, or won’t happen.
I don’t have as many readers as i once did
Read moreOnline engagement with me, and with my blog, has diminished to next-to-nothing!
I don’t write much about politics
Read moreI like the image. But Trump is no Hitler. Hitler had beliefs. He’s more like Peron, or Pinochet, or Mussolini.
I need your cunt
Read moreReflections on the personal and psychological dimensions of oral sex and the sense of exploration and power it brings.