N. Likes, Author at My Dissolute Life

Relaxing… and exhausting

Prelude: as I’ve written, I find it (increasingly) hard to write powerfully about sex. I write reasonably well about anticipation,[…]

Some people like ’em. (I’m looking at you, Hy.) I got nothing against women – or men – who like[…]

I sent her this note: Tonight will be relaxing, and exhausting. You will dress for an interview for an office[…]

As I walked toward a coffee shop, I noticed a beautiful young woman – in her early 30s, I’d guess[…]

Boy, am I craving a happy ending. From you….

Pretty much any polling data on orgasms is interesting. Isn’t it?

In Buddhist thinking, there are “five mental hindrances.” According to Wikipedia, the Buddhist scripture with which I’m most familiar, these[…]

We’ve been interacting on Tinder for about a week. Her profile has three photos. They’re all of her in the[…]

I don’t even know what to say.

Here’s a recent exchange I had with someone who prefers to remain nameless: Her: Today I’ve found myself thinking about[…]