2013

Orgasms are emotional points of inflection in time. Some cry after they cum. Some laugh. Some want to cuddle, or hug. Some want to run, others to sleep, others to smoke. Some want to run away. Orgasms are so intense,…

If I’m honest, in my moments of greatest pain, loneliness, rejection, perceived abandonment, what I want more than anything isn’t sex. No, it’s sex with someone I’m paying. This was true before I reined in my out-of-control behavior, and it’s…

The other day, I wrote a post about why I blog. I mis-titled it, implying that my reasons might be those of others. I’m sorry. Many bloggers told me that I hit their motivations on the head; many others told…

The word “talent” has always made me uncomfortable in its application to female beauty. I’m not sure why, exactly, but it has. I guess because it seems to assert a sort of collective male sense of power and entitlement in…

I offer a realm in which you may do nothing but what I ask, and in which you know you will be safe. In which you exist for my pleasure. And you’re mine. In which your senses are heightened. And…

10) We have secrets we need to expose to sunlight while preserving some anonymity. 9) We’re exhibitionists who get off on revealing in public what usually is private.* 8) We’re attention whores.* 7) Writing about (our) sex gets us hard,…

Hyacinth wrote an excellent post recently on the challenges of writing a sex blog and living a life – keeping the blog secret from the people from whom it’s supposed to be secret, telling those you want to tell, and…

White lab coat. Narrow black plastic glasses. Shiny, straight black hair. She looks Korean. She reads over lunch. Her skirt is so short. I’m ten feet from her. Her black boots reach just below her knees. Where am I supposed to look when she…

I don’t know exactly how the hack worked, but someone, somehow, managed to infect my site with their code such that my posts seem to have included a link to some spammy web site of late. I think I’ve cleared/cleaned it up,…

Thanks, Dumb Domme, for calling to my attention that I been hacked. For a while, now, it seems, my RSS feed (and I don’t know, maybe my posts themselves on the site) have featured misleading links to some spammy, scammy…