2012

Could you describe your orgasms for me? Can I be honest? I’ve asked guys this question before (boyfriends and friends), and the answer is always disappointing. No pressure or anything, but impress me. Um.  This is the kind of question…

We walked down the Chelsea block, curious about just where this party was going to be, just what the cryptically acronymic location is.  As we got closer to the address in the e-mail, we saw the synagogue.  Could it be? …

I’ve never been a fan of the quickie. I don’t know that I ever actually had a quickie before this. And I’ve been replaying the whole thing in my head since that fuck. My usual way may be rough, or…

The other day, I wrote about how to handle my cock. Today, Kassia Winters, the author of “Red Silk Diaries,” posted a super-hot response. Check it out. And tell me, in the comments or on your own blog, how you…

A hot night at Le Trapeze. On this evening, I departed from my usual habit of limiting my sexual activity to my date….

It’s Frisky Friday.  Please post your original work – photos, videos, audio, words, sculpture, what have you – anything about sex or sexuality.  DumbDomme designed this awesome badge – please put it on your post, and link to https://mydissolutelife.com/frisky-friday. Thanks!…

Establishing trust with distant buddies, women I’ve never met and may never meet, can be a challenge.

A twelve-minute, wordless fuck.

You like? Thanks to DumbDomme.  She has mad graphics skilz, and gave me this.  She gave me a couple of others, too, and I may cycle them through my headers for a few days.  If you have a preference among…

I was chatting the other day with Liza, and she asked me about the evolution of my “distant buddy” relationships – how they have started, what their progression has been, and, in particular, how they have grown from being purely…