2012

e[lust] is no more. With this issue, our hostess, Dangerous Lilly, is moving on. She’s an incredible citizen of the sex blog universe, and her announcement that she’s stopping this endeavor is a great loss (to me, at least). e[lust]…

In that way we sometimes do, we sometimes have to, just given the realities of life, we had prenegotiated what our sex would look like that night. “I want you to go down on me when we get home,” T…

I have had a lot of sex with a lot of people, some of whom I’ve barely known. I get tested. And I don’t stress. Here’s how I think about the risks of sex.

The only sexually transmitted infection that scares me is HIV. Here’s why.

There’s a little “open relationship mini-quiz” that’s been making the internet rounds lately. It showed up here, and here. I thought I’d tackle it as well for your reading pleasure. 1. What insight about open relationships do you wish you…

The night began with Mara and me and another couple. I won’t be writing about the part of the evening involving the other couple, because it’s their preference not to be described here. Suffice it to say, fun was had….…

I overheard a coworker the other day lamenting us men. “Egos!” she exclaimed. “You all have such fragile egos.” We do, you know. I’m so often struck by this. For years, I worked in a high-powered, hard-charging field, populated not…

This is courtesy of my G+ friend Lynda. You can make your own here, at a page she so generously made following this post of mine. This is, quite possibly, the hottest thing anyone ever has done for me. She…

When I was nineteen, I studied at a university in the UK. I was oversexed, and my mind was blown by the phenomenon of “Page 3 girls.” For those readers not familiar with the phenomenon certain British tabloids reserve their…

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