2012

I’m in a bit of a relationship/sexuality jag, reading-wise, and right now, I’m reading The Erotic Mind, by Jack Morin. It’s a sort of pop-psychology guide to how to think about eroticism, desire, arousal, excitement, purporting to be a somewhat scientific…

The other day, I wrote, almost as an aside, that when a woman is sucking my cock, I don’t want her to be thinking in more than an ancillary way about my pleasure, and this got me to thinking. I…

So I’m not a big sports fan, and I don’t even know what happened in Barcelona in track and field, and I never heard of Michelle Jenneke before this video went viral, but… I’m sorry, it’s both hot and funny,…

I’m on OKCupid – as N. Likes, and as something in between N. Likes and my real-life alter-ego. T is on OKCupid. And we are on together. All of us – N., Nick, T, and the two of us –…

I just finished my second reading of Can Love Last:  The Fate of Romance Over Time, by Stephen Mitchell. It’s a little dense, and if you’re not into psychoanalytic theory and ways of thinking, you’ll find it baffling and uninteresting, I…

Early 30s, 5’3″. Thick, tortoise-shell glasses. Grey maxi-dress with black stripes. Strawberry blonde hair, in a bun. Big green eyes, made even bigger by the glasses. Thin lips. Wide, warm smile….

Most of you have never ventured over to Google+, and many don’t even know what it is.  Relax – if you don’t know about it, you’re not missing anything. But I maintain a somewhat Spartan existence over there, and once…

It’s Frisky Friday.  Please post your original work – photos, videos, audio, words, sculpture, what have you – anything about sex or sexuality.  DumbDomme designed this awesome badge – please put it on your post, and link to https://mydissolutelife.com/ff. Thanks!…

The eighth of the twelve steps is, “Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.” The ninth is, “Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would…

You know I love orgasms, right? Well, C, a lovely, loyal reader of mine (and a provider of two recorded orgasms previously) recently objected to a comment someone made on the blog.  She asked me my permission to reply to…