May 2012

There’s a web site called “Seeking Arrangement.”  I mentioned it in passing in this previous post. On the front page of the web site, it defines “the Modern Sugar Daddy”: You are always respectful and generous. You only live once,…

I haven’t really reviewed porn before.  I’ve written a bit about it, mostly from the perspective of what turns me on, what I like, what I don’t. There’s a lot of bad, little good, and very little that consistently turns…

“Round 1, you son of a bitch. Your turn….” The look in your eye scares me. “Don’t you dare be a biter,” I say…. “Set me free,” you say, and I do. I untie you, remove the restraints, the belt.…

Purple rubber espadrilles. Yes. Rubber espadrilles. Black leggings. A flimsy black top (cotton? silk?) protecting her ass from my gaze. Almost. She has brown, dull hair, tied atop her head. Full lips. Green, bright eyes. High cheekbones. She’s a dancer…

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I wrote the other day a bit about the ways in which communication is overvalued among advice-givers.  That post was primarily directed at individuals, at ashamed, isolated people who have a troubled relationship to their own desires. There’s a whole other…

You feel the bed sag as my weight falls onto it.  You feel my fingers, gently, opening your thighs.  You feel my breath, warm, moist, on the inside of your thighs.  My lips brush your flesh, my tongue flicks at…

A funny thing happens when you become a sex blogger – or at least, has happened since I did.  There seem to be those who take some comfort, or inspiration, or interest, or something, in my journey, in some or…

I think I’m letting go of the hope that L and I will return to what we had.  This is for a variety of reasons, chief among them, her husband’s lack of interest in our returning to what we had,…