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A look i like (paean)
Read moreShe’s striking, and she checks a LOT of my boxes.
Communicating with me
Read moreThere are a lot of ways you can communicate with me. This is a tease – a bit of information as to how I interact with the apps you might use. In my NEXT post, I’ll tell you what I imagine you’re communicating to me with your choice. But in this post, it’s just a little bit of information about how I interact with the various apps on my phone.
A question, and some answers
Read moreIn which I’m asked by a woman how she might most effectively conjure a FWB or threesome…. Seriously. (Is it that hard for a woman? I’m really shocked.)
Paean
Read moreA gorgeous, inscrutable server….
Lakshmi, or, abandonment
Read moreA model swiped me on Tinder, gave me everything I asked for from afar, and then, when we finally met, gave me almost nothing. I was surprised by how much the ghosting stung.
Svetlana, part two
Read moreIn which I continue to use my date with Svetlana to explore my likes and dislikes.
Paean
Read moreI’m not interested.
Paean
Read morePale beauty.
Paean
Read moreI love when a woman strains at her clothes.
Envy and rage on the subway
Read moreI watch a man improbably pick up a woman on the train, and am consumed by envy and rage.
Part 1 – spectacles, testicles, wallet, and watch: in which i’m fingered by a self-proclaimed ‘slut’ at a bar
Read moreThis is Sheila’s version of our recent date. I think it’s hotter than my version. What do you think?
Sheila
Read moreIn which I fingered a visiting dignitary in a bar.
Love in the dust
Read moreA thirteen-year-old boy, a Hungarian village girl, and everything I’ve ever failed to do with women, written in dust.
Paean
Read moreBeauty, as rendered by a pencil.
Ugh
Read moreSometimes, someone just repels me.
Dating, rejection, abandonment
Read moreI had a great date, and then, I found myself confronting how much I fucking hate rejection and abandoment. Even as it’s not clear that either is happening.
Paean
Read moreAs always, there’s little that’s sexier than imperfection.
Epic bad date
Read moreIn which the highlight of my evening is scoring an umbrella.
Surfing relationships
Read moreBeing a sex blogger can be hard, but it’s rewarding, in often surprising and complicated ways.
Reassurance
Read moreAm I who I say I am? How could you possibly be sure?
