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Losing women
Read moreI struggle to accept the loss of women in my life, a pattern rooted in losing my mother repeatedly.
Paean
Read moreA surfeit of style
Paean
Read moreA paean that graduates into something like a creep shot.
Paean, or, the limitations – and capabilities – of ai
Read moreAI can nail a face but not a feeling. Guess which one matters more to me.
Preternatural
Read moreEvery fucking element of her is preternatural. And I enlisted every AI I could find to try to show you what I mean.
Portrait of a stranger who looks like my cousin
Read moreWhile sitting at a bar in my father’s neighborhood, I was struck by a beautiful woman who closely resembles a cousin I once had a crush on.
Excavations from an old journal (#1)
Read morePaging through an old journal, I found this….
Biking ruminations
Read moreA momentary lapse of reason about Serena.
Dominance, dubmission, and new dating dynamics
Read moreAfter years of D/s relationships, my presumptuous and demanding habits are causing missteps as I start dating older, more experienced women.
Growing up
Read moreFor years, my dating life was defined by dominance and submission. Now, I’m experimenting with dating women who aren’t arriving with that expectation—this has not been my world, really, ever. I’ve already had a couple of missteps. With these grown-ass women? I’ve been presumptuous, demanding, and narcissistic.
Cunt dreams
Read moreJust what is it I’m scared of? Same old same old…. Shame. Abandonment. Loss.
The burden of a false self revealed
Read moreRemembering pressures I felt to be someone other than myself.
Paean
Read moreA beautiful German woman.
Fear and uncertainty in dating
Read moreI find that if I mine my interactions with, and feelings about, various women in my life, I can learn a lot of interesting stuff. Mostly around my fear and uncertainty in dating.
Heading back to the chemistry sex party – with serena (a portrait)
Read moreI’m headed off to the Chemistry sex party with Serena, and I can’t. Fucking. Wait.
Sex party: headed back to chemistry
Read moreI’m headed back to Chemistry, and very excited….
All about my mother (#2,111)
Read moreThe power of the unconscious, or, how I use women.
Instructions for serena
Read morePacking instructions, wardrobe requirements, and a shopping itinerary for Serena’s visit.
Rethinking marina
Read more‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?
I hate iphones (and, sometimes, the people who use them) – note to lina khan
Read moreI hate iPhones – an Android user’s lament.
