Tag
Swinging
39 posts
A question, and some answers
Read moreIn which I’m asked by a woman how she might most effectively conjure a FWB or threesome…. Seriously. (Is it that hard for a woman? I’m really shocked.)
Ddevious delights, rip
Read moreA farewell to one of my favorite New York sex party series, which has devolved into something I won’t be attending.
Single guys and sex parties
Read moreThe answer to how a single guy gets into a sex party is simpler than most men want it to be.
Date with v
Read moreForgot my wallet, made her pay for everything, collared her at the bar, and lost count of her orgasms at Le Trapeze. Not very dom-ly — except for the parts that were.
Superiority
Read moreNavigating the minefield of CraigsList couples, where clarifying your sexual preferences can earn you a lecture on hetero-normativity from a former burlesque dancer.
Truth and memory at a sex party (stag at a sex party, part 2)
Read moreMemory is unreliable. Sex parties, doubly so.
Stag at a sex party, part 1
Read moreMy first time at a sex party was a letdown. My most recent time, I arrived in a very different place.
On the swingset
Read moreNeighborhood swinging, birthday party gossip, and the rules of the club — explained over grilled chicken, with a two-year-old on someone’s knee.
Special redux, redux
Read moreI don’t just want you. I want you to want everything I want, for me — and to keep up as I ask for more.
High-concept swinging (iv) – from a friend
Read moreA friend offers his own high-concept swinging fantasy — structured, verbal, and escalating, like a dinner party designed by a very literate pervert.