Sex addiction

Not the sex tips you’ll find everywhere else — these are for people trapped in shame, not people looking to spice things up in the bedroom.

A graphic novel about being a john, found on a neighbor’s doorstep — and what it gets right, and wrong, about the humanity of paying for sex.

She wanted the offer, not the items on offer.

For years, I never fucked another woman — not out of principle, but because fucking was never the thing I wanted. Then that started to change.

CraigsList, hotel rooms, and the education of a sexually self-aware man, one blowjob at a time.

This is the story of my second first paid blowjob. It began with a massage, and she wanted my cock in her mouth…

My first paid blowjob involved a bait-and-switch, a dark room, and a technique that should be patented.

The elaborate fictions I constructed to make sense of behavior that made no sense — brave explorer and pathetic loser, coexisting without reconciliation.

Too much is never enough?

A Saturday afternoon, a Village Voice, and a pay phone: the mechanics of my first paid sexual encounter.