Relationships

Fourteen years since climbing out of the wreckage, and I’ve never felt more alive—despite the limp, the pain, the aging. Death is a constant companion, sure, but so is desire, vitality, absurd good fortune, and the bittersweet weight of knowing I’m right at the peak.

TOO MUCH AUDIO! [And, relationship dynamics. And, thighs.]

Two principles I try to remember: it’s almost always more useful to ask what *we* did than what *you* did, and more useful to think about what *I* can change than what *you* should.

Forget the quizzes — if your gut says something’s wrong, it is. Here’s what I actually find useful instead.