Marriage

I’m a seriously lucky guy.

Why does marital status matter for casual sex? I don’t know, but for some, it DOES. I was so hopeful about this Brazilian beauty….

Does marriage require deception? I like to imagine it doesn’t for me.

How T and I spent a morning, including cats, a magic wand, some sucking and fucking, and just a little humor.

Somehow, when I see a wedding or engagement ring on an attractive woman, I make a lot of assumptions about her.

Esther Perel talks about infidelity without demonizing anyone, and gets it exactly right.

She’s amazing — but not for the reasons you think.

Monogamy is ascendant as a sacred cow, and the fact of rampant infidelity is taken as evidence not of a problem with how we think about fidelity, but of widespread depravity.

The unsexy truth about how I schedule sex.

A sexy young bartender asks me for marriage advice. My first instincts are not, shall we say, helpful. But then I get serious.