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Fucking
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Rough sex, cognitive dissonance, and acting
Read moreIf I’m honest, “rough sex” confuses me. I’m capable of rough-ish sex. I can spank, slap, throw around, etc. But truth is, it goes against everything in my soul to do so, and I’m slightly baffled by the whole thing.…
Last hurrah?
Read moreI sat in a swanky bar, waiting for Rose. I was wearing jeans and a pink/white candy-striped shirt. (“You look good in pink” is something I hear often enough when wearing this shirt to feel good wearing this shirt.) I…
Luna(tic)
Read moreLuna is difficult. She’s spoiled. She’s entitled. She’s an attention whore. Not infrequently, she e-mails me, “Give me attention!” I don’t think she’s jealous, exactly. But she wants to be my first call, wants to know that, if, for example,…
Meet the amazon
Read moreThe Amazon gives me an awesome blowjob – her mouth is like a warm cave of jello, with soft pillows lining the walls.
My favorite position
Read moreIf you’ve been paying attention you know it involves your mouth on my cock. The other day I was asked by someone who didn’t know me so well: What’s your favorite position? I hate this question. Because in my experience,…
Fucking
Read more“I want to fuck you,” I say. “I want to feel my cock inside you.” “How?” you ask. “I want you on top of me,” I answer. “I want you to ride me. SLOW-ly.” “Ok then,” you say. And you…
Harm and destruction
Read moreIn my last post, I wrote, “But lately, there’s been an awakening sense of violence in me. A burgeoning sense that I want to… harm someone, destroy someone, when I fuck her.” This has elicited a couple of different reactions…
Sex and aggression
Read moreI’ve written before that fucking isn’t my primary sexual activity, that I’ll take oral any day. I’ve also written that one of the challenges with me for fucking is the intrinsically aggressive nature of it, that my domination is, by…
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking
Read more“The act” “Consummation” “Home run” “Fucking” All of the language describing penis-in-vagina intercourse suggests that it is the point. For many, for most, it is. For me, it’s not.
Stag at a sex party, part 1
Read moreSome years ago, before I had ever had sanctioned sex outside our marriage, I visited The F Club in London. We were, at the time, planning our first visit to a sex club or party (I don’t now remember if…