Domination

Call me N. Not Sir, not Daddy, not Mr. anything. Just N.

These are just a few of my basic rules for distant buddies – or, if you prefer, online sex partners.

The word “no” is poison to me — not because I don’t respect your limits, but because I need you to find another way to draw them.

What I really mean when I say I want you to do as I ask.

Compliance is a turn-on. Imperfect compliance is a turn-off. Don’t make me ask twice.

A reader sends me a cartoon about dominance, made with a tool my kid loves.

I ask a lot. I give a lot. It’s not complicated.

The final installment of this particular fantasy — in which she finally gets the words right.

You didn’t listen the first time. You’ll learn.

Sofia wants the men who fuck her to want to harm her. This is harder than it sounds — especially when you love someone.