Dominance

How T and I spent a morning, including cats, a magic wand, some sucking and fucking, and just a little humor.

“There’s something about a man in a suit.” I hear/read that all the time. I consider myself lucky, now, to wear suits infrequently – only to weddings, funerals, and bar mitzvahs. I used to wear a suit every day. Every…

I’m intimidating. I’m told that, over and over. This always amuses me. If you met me, you’d chuckle at the idea that I’m intimidating. I’m capable of being commanding. Confident. Directive. More often, though, I’m sweet, kind, gentle, warm. I’m…

to feel your throat yield as my thumb and forefinger – and the webbing between them – press into it. I want to hear that lovely combination of moan and gasp as your breath is momentarily, just a little shockingly,…

What is the definition of “dominant”? Well, I don’t really give a fuck. The salient question is, “What does my dominance look like?”

I think the first time I use you, I will, first, ask you simply to kneel for me. And I will stand in front of you, tempting you with my cock. For a LONG time. Before, finally, I will feed…

We meet. It’s the first time we are meeting. It’s early in the day. You have given me your sexual bucket list. My charge is to cross off as many items on it as possible. I have gotten to know…

I’ve entered into a relationship. It’s great. It hits every level of satisfaction except sexually. I’m frustrated and unsure of where to go from here…. It’s unsatisfying for both of us. To me, it feels forced. He is extremely attractive..a…

I recently wrote that I thought my discomfort with rough sex has something to do with my ambivalent relationship toward aggression, with the difficulty I feel in accessing it, particularly in sexual interactions with women. (And, to confuse things a…

If I’m honest, “rough sex” confuses me. I’m capable of rough-ish sex. I can spank, slap, throw around, etc. But truth is, it goes against everything in my soul to do so, and I’m slightly baffled by the whole thing.…