Addiction

Need help with time management? Hire an addict. We juggle more logistics before breakfast than most people do all week.

My thinking about sex addiction is evolving — the neuroscience is more interesting, and the sex addiction industrial complex more bankrupt, than I previously understood.

A running index of my thoughts on whether sex addiction is real, and whether I have it.

Thinking someone could just explain away my compulsive sexual behavior was the first of many things I got wrong. The list of things I got wrong is long.

A glossary of sorts — what I actually mean when I say “compulsion” and “addiction,” and why the distinction matters more than you might think.

Pubescent girls affect me in ways I wish they didn’t. Here are some thoughts about all that.

It wasn’t the sex I was addicted to — it was the endless, shimmering promise of it, glowing on screen after screen.

Privacy is good. Secrecy? That’s my addict doing pushups in the basement.