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Writing about sex from a distance

The Historian e-mailed me what she called “marginalia” – her contemporaneous journal entries from the weekend in question (almost two[…]

Writing about, reading about, fucking I did almost two years ago, I’m reminded of how passive I was when fucking,[…]

There’s nothing like an hourly hotel. When you walk into such a place, when you greet a clerk and ask[…]

Is that what you say? What is it that you say when a non-poly guy, whose wife you’ve been seeing for[…]

I’ve written before about privacy and secrecy, particularly as regards parenting. I’m once again wondering about it. I hate the[…]

“Whoever told you life is fair?” My grandmother used to say this to me. She was right. One of the[…]

In the world of “sex addiction recovery,” there is a concept called “custody of the eyes.” I believe this is[…]

As I gained control of my out-of-control behavior, as I discovered an ability to accept my desires and at the[…]

We had a plumbing fiasco the other night. I probably could have fixed it myself but the water damage was[…]

In the world of twelve-step programs, there’s a ubiquitous construct: the “inner addict.” The inner addict is a sort of[…]