What turns me on
Someone on Formspring just asked me the question, “What turns you on?” and it got me thinking. (I don’t know[…]
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Thinks I think
Shame, or, Sonnet 129
A.O. Scott’s review of “Shame” in The New York Times alludes to Shakespeare’s Sonnet 129: The expense of spirit in[…]
Read moreMonogamy and its discontents
Newt Gingrich asked his wife for an open marriage. Sort of. Not really. Really, he asked her not to divorce[…]
Read moreMy Sally Field moment
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Read moreWriting about sex from a distance
The Historian e-mailed me what she called “marginalia” – her contemporaneous journal entries from the weekend in question (almost two[…]
Read moreFucking, being fucked
Writing about, reading about, fucking I did almost two years ago, I’m reminded of how passive I was when fucking,[…]
Read moreHourly hotels
There’s nothing like an hourly hotel. When you walk into such a place, when you greet a clerk and ask[…]
Read moreThanks for letting me fuck your wife
Is that what you say? What is it that you say when a non-poly guy, whose wife you’ve been seeing for[…]
Read morePrivacy, secrecy
I’ve written before about privacy and secrecy, particularly as regards parenting. I’m once again wondering about it. I hate the[…]
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