Dishonesty
How does an otherwise honorable person lie? And not a little white lie, but the kind of major, character-defining lie[…]
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Thinks I think
Open letter to Dan Savage
You are one of my gurus. Probably, the one who has influenced me most. And I’m a guy with some[…]
Read moreOn reading erotica
“Have you read Love and Kink, by Guy New York?” “No, should I?” “Sooooo good…. Shocked at how good it[…]
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Four ways of looking at jealousy (apologies to Wallace Stevens)
I’ve written about jealousy before, and I fear I have little new to add on the subject, but it’s feeling[…]
Read moreI’m offensive
Here’s an experience. Perhaps you’ve had it. Me? It happens to me shockingly often. I write something. It might be[…]
Read moreOn being sexy, ill, and blogging
Liza wrote the other day about some problems she’s been having, both with sex and with writing. (And then, promptly,[…]
Read moreSome things I like, on a rainy day
Wet hair Rubber boots Black leggings Frizzy hair Clinging cotton Cutoff shorts Hats Dishevelment, generally
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Further thoughts on creep shots
In which I decide that maybe, just maybe, taking non-consensual photos of people might be problematic. Thanks to the thoughtful comments of readers of this blog.
Read moreOn blogging, and my narcissism
Last night, I had a “fight” – I think – with a distant buddy of mine. I’m not sure what[…]
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