Open letter to Dan Savage
You are one of my gurus. Probably, the one who has influenced me most. And I’m a guy with some[…]
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You are one of my gurus. Probably, the one who has influenced me most. And I’m a guy with some[…]
Read more“Have you read Love and Kink, by Guy New York?” “No, should I?” “Sooooo good…. Shocked at how good it[…]
Read moreI’ve written about jealousy before, and I fear I have little new to add on the subject, but it’s feeling[…]
Read moreHere’s an experience. Perhaps you’ve had it. Me? It happens to me shockingly often. I write something. It might be[…]
Read moreLiza wrote the other day about some problems she’s been having, both with sex and with writing. (And then, promptly,[…]
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Read moreIn which I decide that maybe, just maybe, taking non-consensual photos of people might be problematic. Thanks to the thoughtful comments of readers of this blog.
Read moreLast night, I had a “fight” – I think – with a distant buddy of mine. I’m not sure what[…]
Read moreThere’s a web site called “Seeking Arrangement.” I mentioned it in passing in this previous post. On the front page[…]
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