Musing

The ethics of fucking someone else’s partner aren’t mine to police. But the practical risks? Those I think about.

I keep promising Sofia something simple, and I keep failing to deliver. The why of it is more interesting than the failure itself.

It’s cowgirl, and I’ll tell you exactly why — but there are exceptions.

My official position on failure to launch, once and for all.

I’m a word guy. So it’s not surprising that word tattoos are the ones that most often turn me on.

She asked me, mid-blowjob, what I like so much about having my cock sucked. It’s a harder question than you might think.

No one who’s met me would say I’m a “tattoo kind of guy.” But I know exactly what I’d get, and where.

What you see here is only what I let you see, at the angle I choose. The question is whether you remember that.

I don’t get off on breaking the rules. I want everyone — every lover, every partner — to be just fine with everything I do. Risk scares me. It doesn’t excite me.

Woody Allen makes me uncomfortable, and I’d rather not think about why.