Tattoos – part 1
Twice in the last week, I’ve been asked if I have any. “You seem like a tattoo kind of guy,”[…]
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Thinks I think
A pinhole camera
Your eyes are pressed up against a tiny aperture. I guide the hole, carefully, to reveal to you only what[…]
Read moreWoody Allen
Woody Allen, years ago, fell in love with his wife’s daughter, with the girl/woman his own adoptive children, and his[…]
Read moreAddiction and judgment (more on Philip Seymour Hoffman)
Blaming addicts for their addictions is unhelpful. It is not “true” to say that Philip Seymour Hoffman was selfish; it’s[…]
Read moreAddiction and weakness
Philip Seymour Hoffman’s death has hit me hard. Inexplicably so. Or maybe not so much so. Like he was, I’m[…]
Read moreProsecuting rape
Deeply un-sexy post here…. For a number of reasons, I’ve been thinking about rape prosecutions lately. (Stop here if you[…]
Read moreAshley Madison
A while ago, I wrote about my skepticism about Ashley Madison. In the last month, three things have happened that[…]
Read moreOn women’s age
Question: Does your involvement with other women (real life and cyber) include women in their 40s like you, or are[…]
Read moreDating at the speed of business
UPS had a slogan for a while – “Moving at the speed of business.” Back in a previous life, one[…]
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