Addiction and judgment (more on Philip Seymour Hoffman)
Blaming addicts for their addictions is unhelpful. It is not “true” to say that Philip Seymour Hoffman was selfish; it’s[…]
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Thinks I think
Addiction and weakness
Philip Seymour Hoffman’s death has hit me hard. Inexplicably so. Or maybe not so much so. Like he was, I’m[…]
Read moreProsecuting rape
Deeply un-sexy post here…. For a number of reasons, I’ve been thinking about rape prosecutions lately. (Stop here if you[…]
Read moreAshley Madison
A while ago, I wrote about my skepticism about Ashley Madison. In the last month, three things have happened that[…]
Read moreOn women’s age
Question: Does your involvement with other women (real life and cyber) include women in their 40s like you, or are[…]
Read moreDating at the speed of business
UPS had a slogan for a while – “Moving at the speed of business.” Back in a previous life, one[…]
Read moreDeconstructing monogamy and sexual commitment
Monogamy: Because of who you are, I won’t sleep with anyone else. If this involves sacrifice, so be it. Part[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony #6: Flat shoes vs. heels
We straight men are supposed to prefer women in heels. “Heels do wonderful things for women’s calves,” we are told,[…]
Read moreOn the sensuality of head
You thought I was talking about oral sex? You have a dirty mind. No, I’m talking about my head. About[…]
Read moreA sensation for which there isn’t a proper word
My cock is clamoring for attention. It’s not hard, exactly. It’s a bit firm, I guess, but more than that,[…]
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