Respect
A big part of what the world reads as submission, I read as respect. And not just respect of the[…]
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Thinks I think
Blowjobs and teeth
No thank you. Just sayin’.
Read morePubic hair
I wrote this almost three years ago. In the time since then, I’ve gotten more comfortable with hairless pussies as,[…]
Read moreGetting to know you
I like getting to know your sexuality, getting to know how you work. What makes you tick, what makes you[…]
Read moreI often seem to misunderstand
Tinder is recalibrating me just a little. In my life, one hundred percent of the people I interact with, I[…]
Read morePleasing me
A couple of times lately, with at least three different women, I’ve noticed an unfortunate feature of the workings of[…]
Read moreThe Varieties of Tinder Experience
(with apologies to William James) This is not an inclusive list. It omits all of the women I really enjoy[…]
Read moreA sub with a non-dom
I’ve entered into a relationship. It’s great. It hits every level of satisfaction except sexually. I’m frustrated and unsure of[…]
Read moreMy greatest fantasy
I’ve written about it before. Several times, actually. (Also, here, and here.) In very short form, it features a gazillion[…]
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