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A hot night at Le Trapeze. On this evening, I departed from my usual habit of limiting my sexual activity to my date….

It’s Frisky Friday again — show me what you’ve got.

Establishing trust with distant buddies, women I’ve never met and may never meet, can be a challenge.

A twelve-minute, wordless fuck.

DumbDomme made me a pretty new banner. Go check out her blog.

Liza asked how my long-distance relationships evolve from tawdry to something more. The answer, it turns out, is slowly, unevenly, and with a certain melancholy.

Four modes of porn consumption, only one of which doesn’t leave me feeling like a hungry ghost.

The Craigslist ad that started it all — a little self-knowledge, a lot of squats, and two trainers later, I’m in the best shape of my life.

Strip clubs, sex addiction, smugness, and a visit to New York Dolls.

I love writing dirty. Talking dirty? That’s another story.