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People always want to label themselves: swinger, poly, kinkster, slut. I hate labels.

A reader shares a vivid, detailed account of her orgasm — the first in what I hope will be an ongoing series.

It’s Frisky Friday again — show me what you’ve got.

I threw S under the bus, and she called me on it. Now I’m earning her trust back, one picture at a time.

A detailed set of instructions for an afternoon together.

A bit of housekeeping.

K asked me to describe my orgasm. Turns out it’s as hard as it sounds.

Of course the sex party was in a synagogue. For this secular Jew, it felt like coming home.

I’ve never been a fan of the quickie — but I’m learning.

Kassia Winters wrote a scorching response to my piece on how to handle my cock. Now it’s your turn.