Year
2018
93 posts
Damn
Read moreSo this happened. And much more. Subject to this. And this.
A list of posts i might, one day, write
Read moreThis is just a list of things I might, one day, write about.
Postscript on certainty
Read moreThe perils of scheduling posts.
Anticipation and certainty
Read moreMy mind mystifies me. On the one hand, I crave certainty. On the other, I crave risk.
I’m a progressive, feminist john
Read moreSome friends and I discuss sex work….
Priorities
Read moreThey’re for real.
A thought in a men’s room at a bar
Read moreAll texts, emails, tweets, etc. should include a description of their author’s activity and location when texting.
Smoking
Read moreI am a tortured soul. I stopped smoking a few months ago. For the umpteenth time. And then, the other day, I bought a pack. Not for “bad” reasons. I had happy shit happening, and I wanted to celebrate, and…
Dear hope
Read moreHope is delicious, but I’m afraid I may have failed to give her enough of what she needed to keep her giving me what I need.
Thinking about rules (#1)
Read moreIt can be challenging – and rewarding – to have a date subject to strict, pre-established limitations. Fuck, it can be hot just to negotiate them.