2013

I’ve been feeling a lot of envy lately. Envy for people with more money, for people who’ve achieved more professionally. Envy for people who have more sex, who are better looking. Envy for people with less complicated psyches. Inevitably, envy…

I’m drawn to strong women who grant me submission, not to women whose submission I can take from them.

I like to watch you touch yourself. I want to tell you what to wear (you know that). I want to tell you where to sit, or where to lie (you know that). I want to tell you what to…

Is a good thing.

Hypothesis: most of us have at least one or two things that we really really don’t want someone to know. (Google and the NSA could confirm this.) Some secrets are shameful (like the ones I carried around for years). Some…

It’s a funny word. Sometimes, it means, “Do this, but don’t accuse me of impoliteness.” Sometimes it means, “I know I can tell you to do this, but I respect you, and so I’m delivering my order to you politely.”…

Ok. I’m sitting here. I’m not sure if I got my feet in a good position. My ankle feels like it’s pressing against the floor a little hard. Ow. Shit. I should have gotten my position straight before I started…

If you strip the ends of an extension cord, insert one in each end of a pickle, and plug it in, you get a fun project for kids of all ages. You might blow a fuse – I just did…

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If you lack in time management skills, consider hiring an addict to coach you. Addicts are, almost universally, masters. We have to be. To spend as much time as we want, as we need, pursuing our drug/behavior of choice, we…