2013

Black stockings on pale legs, and why my imagination is the hottest thing going.

Imperfection can be hot.

That is all.

I got a detail wrong about *Shame*, and in correcting it, I found a whole other movie hiding inside two minutes of Lucy Walters’s face.

Michael Fassbender’s soulless, brilliant performance yanks my heart out — it captures so much of what I remember from that time in my life.

A brief history of my face.

Questions my son will ask me one day, and how I’ll answer them.

The smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all in one place.

What I think when I see a great ass in leggings is not what you might expect. It’s conceptual, not explicit — and that distinction may explain more about me than I’d like.

Sofia offers a woman’s perspective on sex scarcity, and I riff on her fantasy of a world where you can just walk up to someone and negotiate preferences before fucking.