January 2013

Join us for a debauched night of fun. We are looking for two other couples. Our intent is to pre-approve one another via e-mail, exchanging only accurate body photos and verbal descriptions, and then to “meet” in a dark bar…

A loyal, and articulate, reader wrote me the other day that she likes reading my generically hot posts, and posts about sex and sexuality, but not those that recount specific encounters, because they make her feel unwelcomedly voyeuristic. Others have…

You want to be what I want you to be? Let your pleasure be the centerpiece of your speech; let mine be the centerpiece of our action. Tell me what you want, yes. You want to feel my cock drag…

Hey, you. Yeah, you. I can see the outline of your bra through your t-shirt, the outline of your boyshorts through your skirt. I want you to stand near me – close enough that I can smell you, that I…

A while ago, I mentioned that Woopra, a nifty little tool that lets me stalk you, readers, also lets me (gasp) pop up on your screen and chat with you. My fellow blogger Ferns, the author of Domme Chronicles (a…

In my New Year’s Resolution post a year ago, and again yesterday, I mentioned “high-concept swinging” as a goal. A couple of readers asked just what I meant by that. Sorry – I was talking to myself when I wrote…

I received the following in my e-mail the other day: I recently started a new job I am really involved in. I get to think and experiment with some inserting [sic] people. The other day I found myself alone with…

Thanks, Lily, for including me in your #SexReader Best of 2012 review. That review has some great bloggers on it – I recommend it highly. I’m flattered to be there, and grateful. And it reminded me of a self-effacing post…