2012

Jillian Keenan wrote a terrific, honest exploration of her appetite for spanking in, of all places, *The New York Times*.

Less writing, less sex, less energy — but not less thinking about all three.

If abortion is murder, rape and incest exceptions reveal what you’re really after: punishing women for having sex.

Two U2 songs got me through a bad day. I’m not sure why, but I’m not asking questions.

I wanted to write about the impossibility of symmetry in non-monogamy. Turns out I already did.

Real life is in the way. But my cock doesn’t care.

She won’t commit, but she won’t stop sending pictures either. We both know how this ends.

A sister blogger returns, and you should pay attention.

Trying not to replicate my father’s mistakes around sex and secrecy, while knowing I probably already have.

Another questionnaire — this time, about how you’d like me to go down on you.