2012

I try to write soul-searching, introspective exploration of my sexuality. I like reading others embarked on the same project. Jillian Keenan has written a terrific, honest exploration of her appetite for spanking in, of all places, The New York Times.…

People don’t, generally, go to sex blogs (and yes, I think that for the most part, this is a sex blog) to read the mundane details of their authors’ lives. Because the truth is, the mundane details of authors’ lives…

I tend not to write too explicitly about politics, though I suspect anyone who reads this blog can imagine roughly where I stand. But I have a thought on abortion that feels so powerfully like common sense to me, but…

Yesterday was a bad day. Today, I have had these two songs in my head, all day long. I won’t pretend to understand how or why, or claim that there’s anything magical or deep about the lyrics, or that they…

One of the challenges of swinging, or polyamory, or non-monogamy, or monogamish-ness, is the simple impossibility of symmetry. I just started to write a post on the subject – about how sometimes T gets more of what she wants than…

There’s a lot going on. Real life prevents me from writing much. But damn, I’m horny.

She’s maddeningly non-committal. Making plans is impossible. But she tantalizes me. Lying in her bad, in black briefs, her hand lifting the elastic, reaching down to her pussy. Standing, her gorgeous, round ass facing me, in a pink g-string, topless,…

I’m pleased. My sister blogger, Liza, seems to be returning to the world of blogging. This is a win for all, as she writes great, and is fun and funny. She writes (exceedingly well) about her and her husband’s monogamous…

A while back, I asked for topic suggestions – either things about which I’ve written that you enjoy reading, or suggestions for new topics. My friend, Omniwhore (who writes a great blog, btw), wrote that he would be interested to…

I’ve previously asked about how you like to be fingered, about how you like your breasts handled. Today, I’m wondering…. When I’m going down on you, what would you like? Would you like to be blindfolded? Restrained? Just your hands?…