November 2012

Sometimes the most distracting thing in a meeting isn’t the agenda.

Given my druthers, I’d simply lie back and be ministered to. This makes me a boring sexual partner, but at least I’m self-aware about it.

Jillian Keenan wrote a terrific, honest exploration of her appetite for spanking in, of all places, *The New York Times*.

Less writing, less sex, less energy — but not less thinking about all three.

If abortion is murder, rape and incest exceptions reveal what you’re really after: punishing women for having sex.

Two U2 songs got me through a bad day. I’m not sure why, but I’m not asking questions.

I wanted to write about the impossibility of symmetry in non-monogamy. Turns out I already did.