November 2012

She’s in her mid-20s. Curly brown hair, below her shoulders. Big brown eyes, a long face, angular nose. A grey cotton dress, stretched tight over round, full breasts. Black tights, black pumps. She sits across from me in a 25-person…

As I lay back, your mouth on my cock, my head on the pillow, I think, “Why am I so fucking lazy?” It’s simply true that, for all of my love of eating pussy, given my druthers, I would simply…

I try to write soul-searching, introspective exploration of my sexuality. I like reading others embarked on the same project. Jillian Keenan has written a terrific, honest exploration of her appetite for spanking in, of all places, The New York Times.…

People don’t, generally, go to sex blogs (and yes, I think that for the most part, this is a sex blog) to read the mundane details of their authors’ lives. Because the truth is, the mundane details of authors’ lives…

I tend not to write too explicitly about politics, though I suspect anyone who reads this blog can imagine roughly where I stand. But I have a thought on abortion that feels so powerfully like common sense to me, but…

Yesterday was a bad day. Today, I have had these two songs in my head, all day long. I won’t pretend to understand how or why, or claim that there’s anything magical or deep about the lyrics, or that they…

One of the challenges of swinging, or polyamory, or non-monogamy, or monogamish-ness, is the simple impossibility of symmetry. I just started to write a post on the subject – about how sometimes T gets more of what she wants than…