Month
June 2012
46 posts
On reading erotica
Read moreI can’t get hard reading erotica by someone I can’t imagine fucking.
Four ways of looking at jealousy (apologies to wallace stevens)
Read moreJealousy, for me, boils down to the fear that I don’t exist — and that a woman holds the power to confirm it.
Wisdom vs. folly
Read moreFolly is making a late-game push, and I’m not sure I’m rooting for wisdom.
I’m offensive
Read moreI seem to have a gift for giving offense where none was intended — and I’m not done yet.
Quickie
Read moreTwenty minutes. Go.
On being sexy, ill, and blogging
Read moreIllness, recovery, and the slow return of desire — for sex, for writing, for being myself.