June 2012

“Have you read Love and Kink, by Guy New York?” “No, should I?” “Sooooo good…. Shocked at how good it was.” “But here’s the problem: I just don’t get turned on reading something by someone I can’t imagine fucking.” This…

I’ve written about jealousy before, and I fear I have little new to add on the subject, but it’s feeling salient, so I guess I’ll do one of my periodic revisitations of the subject. Here is how I experience jealousy:…

If you’ve been keeping score at home, wisdom, thus far, has prevailed.  But folly is mounting a tremendous rally. Do you have thoughts on the matter?

Here’s an experience.  Perhaps you’ve had it.  Me?  It happens to me shockingly often. I write something.  It might be a general something.  It might be a tweet or “subtweet.”  Maybe it’s a little sarcastic.  More often, it’s not.  More…

Synchronize watches. In exactly twenty minutes, commence masturbating. I will be thinking of you; you will be thinking of… me? First to send a thank-you e-mail wins.

Liza wrote the other day about some problems she’s been having, both with sex and with writing.  (And then, promptly, followed with a bunch of characteristically great posts, about burlesque, about gentle sex with her husband and the smell of…