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Nudity
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E[lust] #51
Read morePhoto courtesy of Property of Potter Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions…
A porn lament
Read moreYesterday, I wrote that I’ve been surfing for porn a bit more. One place I’ve been turning to is FTV Girls. This is a membership site that I join every so often, and then let my membership lapse. It features…
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking
Read more“The act” “Consummation” “Home run” “Fucking” All of the language describing penis-in-vagina intercourse suggests that it is the point. For many, for most, it is. For me, it’s not.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #2 – nudity
Read moreI’m not a big fan of nudity. Don’t get me wrong: I think a naked body (male or female) is a thing of beauty, and I like to look at them. But a nude body rarely excites me. No. What…
Early porn, part 1
Read moreThe very first porn I remember seeing was in a friend’s “clubhouse.” Ironically, the magazine was a “Club.” This friend was notable primarily for his insistence that, though his birthday was November 1, his real birthday was October 31, but…
High-concept swinging (iv)
Read moreOral sex school Three couples Each man spends twenty minutes between the thighs of each woman. Each woman spends twenty minutes between the thighs of each man. As with all my sexual fantasies, nudity is to be avoided, clothes maintained…
Peak erotic experiences: fantasy
Read moreLast week, I wrote about my most memorable sexual experience, and I dissected nearly every aspect of it, trying to understand just what about that experience was so resonant for me. Fantasies are interesting in a way that actual sexual…
Questions about swing clubs, and le trapeze
Read moreA couple of weeks ago, I posted about a recent trip to Le Trapeze. Today, in the comments to that post, I received the following: hi- not much of a comment but more of a bunch of questions. cuz you’ve…
Burlesque
Read moreWhat is it about burlesque that I don’t like? I know I’m supposed to like it. It’s what we intelligent, feminist, sex-positive people are supposed to want our stripping ladies (and gents) to look like, to do. The gradual, oh-so-artful,…
My inbox this morning
Read moreI didn’t write this. A lovely correspondent of mine did, in response to a tweet I had sent: “Describe for me a memorable sexual encounter that did not involve nudity.” I enjoyed it so much, I thought I’d share it…