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A couple of men have asked me how they can join in the fun of swinging and sex parties and the like. I’m sympathetic to their desire. I’ve had it at times. At times, as a straight man, it can…

Can you have too many partners? I say “no.”

I’m REALLY good at compartmentalizing.

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This is the kind of question I have wet dreams about being asked. But asked it I was. I gave a flip answer – “I know that you don’t worship mine enough.” And then I drew out my questioner. She…

In a conversation with a wise man once, I distinguished between dominance and submission, on the one hand, and sadism and masochism, on the other. He scoffed at this distinction, saying the two/four were not even two sides of the…

Here’s something sad:  I’m not attracted to fat chicks.  I wish I were.  I like a lot of fat people.  I have no problem with fat people.  It’s just that I’m aesthetically, sexually sensitive to overweight.  It doesn’t get my…

After Isabella, my cherry having been popped, I continued my descent.  (The end of the story, and its summary, can be found here, here and here – I repeat this in every post because it’s important to me that no…

Lately, I’ve been thinking a bit about how money works, about how it can simultaneously deliver and undermine fantasies. As I’ve written about before, my ultimate fantasy is endless oral sex with endless women.  And I’m a lucky guy –…