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Dating
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Paean
Read moreShe’s blonde. Late 20s/early 30s. Her lips are crazy full. Don’t ask me how, but I know the following: 1) Her tits are gorgeous – but I only saw them once, for about a second. And it was in public.2)…
Discovering Tinder
Read moreI’ve been discovering Tinder. It’s kind of my dream app. I’ll be curious to see where it leads, but, in 24 hours, here are the highlights, as well as some observations about the app itself. First, the app: I have…
Dominance, submission, feminism, and OKC
Read moreHere’s an exchange from OK Cupid, without commentary from me. What do you think? N says: I’ve perused your questions. I have no idea whether you will be remotely interested in me or not. I AM interested in you.…
Lies, damn lies, and polyamory
Read moreAlmost two years ago, I wrote about a date I went on with a woman who wouldn’t fuck me because, at the time, T and I were in an explicit, open, honest period of “don’t ask/don’t tell,” and this didn’t…
Loud sentences, overheard by (too?) many, in a bar
Read moreI didn’t really hit my sexual stride until my forties. If I’m gonna take the time to tie a woman up then, for God’s sake, I’m gonna fuck her. Does it make me a bad person that I’m gonna fuck…
Ashley Madison
Read moreA while ago, I wrote about my skepticism about Ashley Madison. In the last month, three things have happened that have caused me to reevaluate my position. 1) A good male friend got laid using it. 2) I got laid…
Newfound pleasure
Read moreTalking to interesting, fun, hot women in bars. I never did it before the last six months or so. I have twice in the last three days. No expectations, not even any real hopes. Just pure fun.
Them’s the breaks…
Read moreT and I go out, from time to time, on dates with other couples. Mostly, these have been people we’ve met through CraigsList. Occasionally, it’s been people we’ve met through OKCupid. These sorts of connections rarely pan out. Our very…
Sitting in bars
Read moreI’ve never been one for the pick-up. It’s not how I’ve ever found sexual partners. I suppose this is mostly a function of the way my confidence works, the way it doesn’t work. I’ve hooked up with friends, with friends…
Stalking Alison
Read moreI figured out who Alison is. Her full name, her employer, her Instagram (active), her Twitter (dormant). It took about twenty seconds, thanks to Google (and LinkedIn). I doubt I’ll call her, mainly because I’m polite, respectful. She has my…
