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The happy circle of attention and compliance, and the women who break it.

Presence, generosity, fiction, and fucking: my resolutions for 2015.

The thrill isn’t in the image — it’s in the compliance. A catalog of the personalized porn women send me, and how I actually consume it.

Emily sends me self-destructing nudes on Snapchat to protect herself, but won’t send the clothed photos I actually want by e-mail.

Three years in, and the posts that rise to the top tell you pretty much everything you need to know about me.

A look back at what you liked best – and what I liked best – in 2014.

Holidays disrupt everything — writing, playing, routine. But I took my Tinder on the road, and apparently I’m catnip west of the Hudson.

Lauren is young, short, incredibly busty, and for a hot moment, incredibly compliant — until she wasn’t.

A woman on a train who may or may not be someone I know, and who may or may not want me to take her home.

Sometimes, dates don’t happen. When they do, you’ll hear about it.