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Amends

The eighth of the twelve steps is, “Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to[…]

Last night, T had a date. I stayed home, cooked dinner, did chores, hung out with our son, read (Can[…]

I’ve recently encountered a couple of “period sex” questions. In general, I don’t care if you don’t. I just finished[…]

Have you ever felt shame? The burning, red hot sensation that there is something really wrong with you? That if[…]

When I wrote this discussion of a GQ profile of Deen, we didn’t know him to be a rapist. Or at least, a poor handler of a rape accusation.

People always want to label themselves: swinger, poly, kinkster, slut. I hate labels.

Lately, the business of being N, and of managing relationships with “Distant Buddies,” has been interesting. P, about whom I’ve[…]

Could you describe your orgasms for me? Can I be honest? I’ve asked guys this question before (boyfriends and friends),[…]

I’ve never been a fan of the quickie. I don’t know that I ever actually had a quickie before this.[…]