Amends
The eighth of the twelve steps is, “Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to[…]
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I’ve recently encountered a couple of “period sex” questions. In general, I don’t care if you don’t. I just finished[…]
Read moreWhen I wrote this discussion of a GQ profile of Deen, we didn’t know him to be a rapist. Or at least, a poor handler of a rape accusation.
Read moreT and I were debriefing about last night. We had a debauched time on a boat in New York harbor,[…]
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 Lately, the business of being N, and of managing relationships with “Distant Buddies,” has been interesting. P, about whom I’ve[…]
Read moreI’ve never been a fan of the quickie. I don’t know that I ever actually had a quickie before this.[…]
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