Gossip
I don’t, generally, think of myself as being “above” gossip. Occasionally I purvey, and/or consume, gossip. More than I’d like.[…]
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Thinks I think
Male family brutality
A couple of months ago, I wrote a bit about masculinity and domestic violence. The issue has remained very live[…]
Read moreRethinking addiction
Heads up. My thoughts about sex addiction are evolving. Close readers of this blog know that I’ve struggled a bit[…]
Read moreRepetition compulsion
Sigmund Freud wrote of the “repetition compulsion.” The technical definition, per Wikipedia, is the repetition of “a traumatic event or[…]
Read morePaeans and want, or, life in the big city
Who needs a car? I love that travel here necessarily involves intimate contact with hundreds, thousands. For many, this overwhelms,[…]
Read moreAfter I cum
Orgasms are emotional points of inflection in time. Some cry after they cum. Some laugh. Some want to cuddle, or[…]
Read morePaying for it, revisited
If I’m honest, in my moments of greatest pain, loneliness, rejection, perceived abandonment, what I want more than anything isn’t[…]
Read moreWhy I write sex (part 2, after a fashion)
The other day, I wrote a post about why I blog. I mis-titled it, implying that my reasons might be[…]
Read moreTop ten reasons sex bloggers blog sex
10) We have secrets we need to expose to sunlight while preserving some anonymity. 9) We’re exhibitionists who get off[…]
Read moreHow to successfully write a secret sex blog and not blow up your life or be a total dick – a manual
Hyacinth wrote an excellent post recently on the challenges of writing a sex blog and living a life – keeping[…]
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