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Thinks I think
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Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – blowjobs
Read morePorn gets blowjobs wrong, and I have opinions about how.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking
Read moreFucking isn’t the point. The sentence is more interesting than the period at the end of it.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #2 – nudity
Read moreWhat excites me isn’t nudity — it’s the distance between clothed and nude, and the slow, deliberate closing of that distance.
On men (part 2)
Read moreMen have the ability to supercharge a sexual adventure, and they have the ability to shrivel my dick. The psychology of both is more similar than you might think.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #1 – big breasts
Read moreI love your breasts the way they are. Please don’t change them.
On men
Read moreMy cock’s in Mary-Anne’s mouth, but my mind’s on Jeff. What’s that about?
Change is hard
Read moreThings are shifting in my life, and it’s leaking out sideways — as envy, as hostility, as unfortunate e-mails sent to the wrong people.
Online dating and personals
Read moreWe don’t know what we want nearly as well as we think we do.
Gangbangs
Read moreThey don’t turn me on — but I understand them better than you might think.
Obscure
Read moreWhat’s hidden is so much hotter than what’s revealed.