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A taxonomy of sexual commitment — what we promise, what we pretend, and what we actually mean.

The exponential complexity of four-way attraction, and the useful sting of rejection.

Sofia has been lurking in the background of this blog, and it turns out she’d rather not be.

Sometimes a reader introduces herself with more than just a comment.

Steve Martin’s “The Cruel Shoes,” and why I’d rather see a woman in flats than in heels.

The best sex bloggers, all in one place.

Pillow talk, verbatim.

You thought I was talking about oral sex? No — I’m talking about how it feels to have a hot woman shampoo your hair.

Nothing kills an appetite quite like a naked lower torso at the buffet.

What you read here and when I wrote it may have little to do with each other.