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In the context of erotic writing, compliance means, simply, “Doing as I ask.” But in reality? It’s somewhat more nuanced. Here are some things it’s not: Blind obedience. Abandonment of principles. Never saying “no.” I acknowledge that I may have…

Vacation is over. Writing will resume shortly. But I welcome inspiration. Give me some?

Sofia is the best pornographer I know. Just sayin’. She is my first, most compliant, most sexy, artful, responsive, provider of porn and other virtual stimulation. In coming days, I will strive to make you the beneficiary of this.

I’m on vacation with my family, having a delightful time. My computer and phone have hardly been part of the experience. My silence will end, in a week or so. In the meantime, I hope you’re having a good early…

Compliance is such a turn-on for me. Imperfect compliance is such a turn-off. Some doms get off on, really enjoy, training their subs. I don’t. I have nothing against – enjoy, even, working with a woman who’s learning about (her)…

Anyone who has a creative kid between the ages of 6 and 12 or so should visit GoAnimate. They have a cool site that lets you design your own cartoon. In our household, we’ve spent a HUGE amount of time…

On three recent occasions, people have described me as “an admitted sex addict,” or some variant of that. Close readers of this blog know that my thinking on sex addiction, and on my relationship to it, is more nuanced (or…

Luna is difficult. She’s spoiled. She’s entitled. She’s an attention whore. Not infrequently, she e-mails me, “Give me attention!” I don’t think she’s jealous, exactly. But she wants to be my first call, wants to know that, if, for example,…

I wrote about how deftly Tinder handles rejection in my original paean to the app. If you haven’t used Tinder, there are two possible moments of rejection – before you’ve ever interacted with someone, and after. Before you interact with…

I think of myself of abhorring it. I’m not a very dramatic person. Notwithstanding the drama of my story, or the complexity of my dissolute life, the truth is, there’s very little drama in it. For the most part, I…