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What is the definition of “dominant”? Well, I don’t really give a fuck. The salient question is, “What does my dominance look like?”

Two women in cotton dresses, standing against a wall, waiting for me.

Monogamy is ascendant as a sacred cow, and the fact of rampant infidelity is taken as evidence not of a problem with how we think about fidelity, but of widespread depravity.

What I mean by “respect” is not a universally agreed-upon set of norms. Here’s what I mean.

A new dating app that’s sort of like Tinder, but creepier. Christine is less than 500 meters away.

Presence, generosity, fiction, and fucking: my resolutions for 2015.

The thrill isn’t in the image — it’s in the compliance. A catalog of the personalized porn women send me, and how I actually consume it.

A brief but firm public service announcement.

Live-blogging a woman making herself come while I listen.

Emily sends me self-destructing nudes on Snapchat to protect herself, but won’t send the clothed photos I actually want by e-mail.