N. Likes, Author at My Dissolute Life

Esther Perel nails it

Over a year ago, I posted Esther Perel’s first TED Talk, in which she hyped her terrific book, Mating in[…]

I don’t do it often. But have you tried Google Inbox? It’s really cool. I tried it a month or[…]

I don’t have many dates. Most of them are good. Great, even. I tend to go on dates only with[…]

I’m creative. My interactions with every woman are different, depending on the woman, my mood, our history, our relationship. But[…]

Distance makes the cock grow harder. We’ll never meet, but I refuse to believe that. I need to fuck her.[…]

Go easy on me when you look back. I may have made mistakes, but they rarely resulted from not trying.[…]

Life is short. Don’t wait for tomorrow. Don’t waste time pretending you don’t want to do the things you do.[…]

Desperation is never sexy. Hunger – particularly specific, particular hunger – is sexy. Confidence is sexy. If I feel hot,[…]

They change remarkably little. I’ve written about them a bunch over the years, but I think I can summarize thus-ly:[…]

It seems as if every six months or so, I fall ill. Well, I’m ill. I hope to be back[…]