2015

Cande gave me a very thorough comment in response to a very terse post of mine. I aspire to respond to all the parts of it in time. But I thought I’d just start at the top. She wrote (I’m…

A few months ago, I wrote about “Inbox,” the new Google e-mail app. I’ve been using it religiously since then. I love it. It’s useless on my desktop/laptop, but on my phone, it’s, truly, a killer app. It’s done away…

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I’m walking down the street, and I do a double-take at a woman. Who is she? Do I know her? She’s not striking, not gorgeous. She’s attractive, though. I scratch my head. She doesn’t seem to know me. In fact,…

There’s something about curls. When I had hair, I had them, in droves. A big, long Jew-fro of a mane. My mother had them too. But these curls – tight, corkscrew ringlets aren’t what I mean. What I mean are…

I’ve been crazy busy, and haven’t been able to write much lately. Also, there just hasn’t been much happening in my sex life of note. Well, that’s not quite true. There’s my recent evenings with Cricket and Tamora, each of…

“What do you like so much about my tits,” Tamora asked me. “I like your whole body!” I said. But I do really like her tits. “They’re so… soft….” I said. It’s true of her whole body. She’s not fat.…

No fun, in the absence of pleasing.

This gives somewhat short shrift to the suffering of the people it describes, but makes some interesting and, for the most part, resonant (to me) points. I recommend it.

Being wanted but not needed? Or being needed but not wanted? For me, I think, I don’t tolerate being wanted and needed so well. I seem to conjure – repeatedly – situations in which one or the other of these…